Sunday, 16 August 2015

Thank you … seriously … thank you!

We are back "home" now,  to "winter" (it's 10c) and I'm thinking about all of the people we are indebted to and the THANKYOU's I should have said … all of those people that made it such a great summer … that summer of 2015 ... in Canada!

The highlight  was probably celebrating our 40th wedding anniversary - not the usual grand party - but a lovely relaxing afternoon of cake … and friends.  So there were thank you's for that one for sure!   We (well Joseph mostly)  also managed to pack and successfully ship all our worldly possessions off down under.  So there are thanks required there as well!  … and of course those unsuspecting friends who housed and fed us and the sibling that loaned us his car … thanks there for sure.

So here we go - a tad boring unless you are mentioned I guess … and if you should be mentioned and aren't … well um … remember I might have mentioned you in previous blogs  …and if I didn't …well I'm sorry! :(


 Thank you Hungry Goat Cafe - Ottawa


That's Henry Assad the owner with his niece - his helper.

- for letting us invade their garage … er cafe … with some friends and the girls from ONW and The Boutique and our cakes and making us coffee and tea as needed and for making the sandwiches to feed FORTY people (that turned out to be only twenty)!


That's the girls from ONW … and Brad in front!
Jacqui, Luna, Sara, Candace, Sasha, Simon (Danielle's husband), Danielle … and Brad!!
That's the girls from The Boutique
Jo-Anne, Joe, Sarah and Gala!
















It was also our 40th anniversary
not far off how we celebrated 40 years before
when the guests bought their own food and drinks!
now you see why I married him … such a cute bow tie!!



Thank you Jane Keogh:
-  for offering to make a cake and then to be told it needed to be for twenty people!!
… and then she went ahead and made the most spectacular cake!

Thank you Dan and Wendy
- We squeezed in a visit at the last minute and Dan cooked up a great meal as usual (and we woofed it down … as usual), and Wendy was gracious as always in-spite of her difficulties.


Thank you to The AGO (Art Gallery of Ontario)
 - for letting us escape the hottest day of the summer in their beautiful air-conditioned building. Lunch at Frank was great … and cool ...

Ken,Eileen, Joe, Gwen Les
et moi - nice and cool!

and so was the art
That's Ken and the project he works on
(counting the birds (in the circle)

and so were our friends (Les & Gwen) who shared their membership with us (& the Ross').

We are definitely connected.

Thank you Guido:


-  the forklift driver at the shipping site who offered to help us pack the boxes. 
 The last two HUGE boxes containing chairs were assembled and packed on site - and there were lots of cavities that needed things stuffed into them…

Poor Guido had trouble understanding that "yes we could buy (most) of these things in Australia" but "no we don't want to part with these things because … they are special to us"…

Well …maybe the Inuit-art print a wedding present from Tom … and maybe the original Terry Lewistka Australian scene … and maybe one of the three or four posters we had mounted (but are freely available to all) …maybe just maybe they were special … but he really had trouble with the mounted poster of the original iMacs!!   I'm afraid that's "going straight to the pool room" …  We are going to have the most art-adorned garage in the whole world… upstairs there just isn't much wall space to mount art… of any kind!

And I might add - Guido was mightily impressed with Joseph's very accurate planning of how the different size boxes would line up on the remaining two pallets.

The two large boxes to the right - the other two pallets full of boxes
(placed meticulously) on the left!
Thank you Brie:
- for a nice Airbnb in Toronto on Queen street - right on Queen street - very convenient!
We would NOT like to thank Toronto traffic for turning a 1.5hr car ride to Waterloo (to visit the Feeney Clan) into a three-hour epic journey… but we DO thank Tom and Andrea for being so gracious about it all … and we showed our gratitude by woofing down the yummy steak and salads … and then leaving!  (well we did visit for a while but it sure did feel like that!) … note: return trip was … just under one hour!
why didn't I take any photos? :(

Thank you Cook's 
- we actually need to thank Greg & Florrie for ALL of the visits to THEIR cottage - but this time poor things had barely unpacked their bags after arriving from Calgary and Florrie was on crutches with a cracked hip and then we (& the Ross') show up for one last (overnight) visit!
That's Florrie showing off her crutches , Joe, Greg, me Ken & Eileen
 - a rather ethereal photo no?
That cottage has been a life saver to us - back when we couldn't afford the time (or cost) for a vacation - so thank you Greg & Florrie for letting us use your cottage even though for most of those years you weren't even there!!

That iron-lung kangaroo sugar dish was a gift from Melinda way back in the Nortel days!
It fits in so well at "the cottage"!

Thank you O'Brien's
 - double thanks here - to the Bushes for driving us ALl the way to the "cottage" (it's a mansion) - way up on the other side of the river in Quebec!!  …

Mary broke her noodle!
 and thanks to Al & Gail for hosting seven of us… 
just one week after hosting a massive wedding party for their son including housing visitors from USA and Australia in their "cottage"

That's Al and Gail between Mary and me!
But, ever the gracious visitors - we showed our appreciation by woofing down the beef tenderloin and salads (that we didn't bring) and drinking copious amounts of wine (one from us!)

...and marvelled at how small the world is that has their son Scott was marrying a girl from Adelaide on New Years Eve - not in Adelaide - but in Victor Harbor AT THE SAME VENUE that Mischa & Simone housed their wedding party (and partied on for two days after the wedding!)!!   Once again we have been gracious in offering our help to fill out the Canadian contingent at the three-day celebration… we'll probably show our appreciation by woofing something down!!  … and most importantly I will have to buy a new dress.

Mr. Disney was right … it is a small world after all!
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This is a crazy photo:
That's Al's bag of spanners that, in the middle of the night,
for no particular reason,
suddenly acquired a hole in the bottom through which the spanners fell
one by one and clinked the bottles as they fell and woke everybody up
assuming we had been invaded by racoons!
A most strange happening.

Thank you Para Transpo
 - thank goodness for Para Transpo because that meant Jane could bring Monty home to their house in Greely to be part of our visit with the Brigham clan! (Due to multiple strokes Monty lives in a nursing home.)

Jill, Jane, Monty, Don, Stephen and Joe
   The "clan" included 3 of their 4 children,  their darling grandchildren (only 6 of the 8 under 5) and Jane's famous brother J.Donald Lafontaine (eminent entomologist) and her oldest brother Stephen.

There's the girls Eva, Annie and Mollie
That's Jackson


… and the twins!



Jane's daughter Emily is apparently a bossy Mother!
We go away back with them.  Joseph birded with Monty when he was a whipper snapper of 16 and I met Jane in London in '75 and I would say, that they have been the most influential people in our lives!  It was Monty who helped Joseph get a job at the CNF and eventually Nature Canada Bookshop - and who knew how important that would be to us.

And it was because of Joseph and Monty's bird trip to the Amazon in June 1975 that I met Jane in London … and well …no other people in our lives hold such an important place in our hearts and that just might include our parents!
We the Brighams!!


Thank you to The Ross'

- probably (no not probably - actually) the biggest thanks of this epic summer must go to Ken & Eileen who stupidly suggested waaay back in 2014 that when we visited Ottawa next summer "we could stay with them the whole time".  Well of course we wouldn't do that to anybody - not anybody we really liked!  But that is exactly what we did!

We holed up in their basement while Joseph used half their garage to perfect the box-packing and we came and went as we pleased and to show our gratitude we woofed down one yummy meal after another; breakfast, lunch, dinner - it didn't matter we were just there to please them!!

we left the door open to Ken's workshop in the hopes it would
make us be tidy … but alas!

We did try to give them the odd breaks - trips to Toronto, the wonderful wedding weekends away, and a week-long sojourn at the Elliott's (thanks a million to Brenda & Brad for agreeing to that!) - the odd weekend at various cottages - but mostly we were in their basement.  Through the tooth extraction, the root canals, the hot the cold, the movies, the shopping, the birding … on and on it went!

"Did those 2.5+ months of summer pass quickly for you?" people would ask "ask the Ross' " I would reply!  They may never recover!!

Note:  I should add that many, many (many) people offered to "put us up" (or was it "put up …"?) and it wasn't just that we weren't sure of the quality of the meals at their respective houses - it was just that once Joseph started on the box-packing it didn't make (too much) sense to leave… 
(although I do recall the Ross' offering to help move those boxes!)

No seriously we can't thank K&E enough … 
friends for more than 40 years … yep … that works!!




Thank you Brother & Sister-in-law

 - another random promise back in 2013 when Tom & Elizabeth were visiting us here in Aus - '"you can use "your" Honda while you are in Ottawa"" (Tom bought the Honda from us when we left).  Now, as if we would do that to anybody - take one of their cars away from them for 2.5+ months!!!… as if??  But that is exactly what we did!  We fell right back in love with our little Honda and we bumped along the roads from the Ross' to the storage unit and down to Toronto and off to cottages - off we went as though it was our own.
T&E hosting family!
Greg,Donna (cousin), Elizabeth, me, Paul (cousin), Joe, Patsy, Marie, Frank and Tommy!

Related!!
 We returned the car to them and to show our gratitude we woofed down a pretty yummy BBQ with them the night before we left - and then - as if that wasn't enough - we made Tom get up at 4.30 a.m. to drive us to the airport.!!  Seriously - thank you T&E.


Tom, Joe me, Sharon (yes Sharon of the cliff-fall) and Elizabeth - just before the woofing down!

... and finally we left … a few last Thank You's:

Thank you Air Canada (I don't care what people say)

 - for an uneventful trip back to Australia - all the bags arrived - all four of them -  and not one thing was broken (and there were mugs and bottles in there).  They let us spend the WHOLE day in Vancouver (9.30 a.m. - 11.30 p.m)!!  … and that gave us a chance to spend time with Cassia's friends Emily and Katrina (& Scott) - so of course we woofed down some more food with them - both meals very (very) yummy and how lovely of them to take time out of their day and even K&S to drive us back to the airport!

Well …er there was one tiny hiccup for AC - the passenger behind us didn't get her "simple" meal!!!  What is a simple meal?  It seemed that whatever the flight attendants tried to offer as a substitute wasn't simple enough!  … well my meals were just fine - I woofed them all down!!



That's Em (Emily Schultz)



…that's Katrina and Scott - after more woofing down!

The Pharmaceutical company that makes Alprazolam!

 - there is nobody else in the world that completes my life like Zanax does … when I fly!!.  Not the little-half pill they suggest - but the THREE whole (and then one extra somewhere over the Pacific) pills that allowed me to be unconscious for most of the 22 hrs in the air.  Sadly I chose not to take one-last pill for the trip from Sydney to Adelaide - a mistake I will never make again - residual I thought - there will be enough residual effect left over that should get me through!  Ha!  Not enough for the ridiculously dangerous landing we had to endure because  our flight happened to land right in the middle of one of the worst storms this winter!  I was of course hysterical and vowed never (ever) to fly again!

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So stay safe everybody... 
safe in the knowledge that I will never again land on your doorsteps
 to stay for a whole summer or use your car for a whole summer
 or plonk down at your cottage or eat your food 
or use your memberships. 

No - I promise I won't do that because …

- I AM NEVER EVER GETTING ON A PLANE AGAIN!!


Thursday, 23 July 2015

Canada in the summer …

After we stopped dressing up in our best clothes for the weddings & funeral -  our clothes & activities were a bit less fancy …

Here, in no particular order of occurrence or preference, is what we've been up to in the Nation's Capital (and surrounds)  this summer:

Camping
ON MY BIRTHDAY!!!
Tom, Sharon and Elizabeth!
Flowers 

this really was the first thing we did - we went to see Machiko (our favourite florist) for some beautiful flowers to thank Ken & Eileen for hosting us for (little did they realize) … 2.5 months (give or take a week or two 
the beautiful and talented Machiko
there MIGHT be a better florist (I doubt it)
 but there isn't a nicer one!
Our hosts - before they realized how long we would stay
Dentist
Strange thing todo perhaps but we don't have "a dentist" in Adelaide (yet) so - off we went to see Dr. Lehrer our dentist for the past 40 years!  … no fillings - but oh joy!  an extraction (Joe) and root canal (Jill ). My first and I was quite devastated  - the needles didn't bother me as much as the horrid gag-inducing latex thing covered my mouth!!  Joseph seemed quite happy to have the mind-altering drugs required for his!

no pics of dentist or root canal or missing tooth!
Hair
- I do have a hairdresser in Adelaide but I don't have Bruce - and even though his shop burned down just days before - he saved my day and made me feel human again.



Chiro

Feeling more human maybe, but my stupid frozen shoulder didn't realize it was warm in canada and that it could keep on thawing (it's been 1.5 years!) - it was going back to frozen!!  -  so off to visit Ken - I was SO happy to see Ken and it seems he has (once again) worked his magic - it is thawing now.

Eating - there has been a lot of eating
Started with a picnic with Nortel friends … lots of laughs and … nice healthy snacks there!  
Then we were into the serious stuff …

•Straight to Art-is-In Bakery for Croque Monsieur
… it did come with a salad!
•A few days in Toronto and of course there was LEE
- outside just as we like it - moderately healthy food
•Back in Ottawa and dinner with Jane (both Jane's),
here's Jane # 2 - Jane Keogh
here's Jane #2
Jane Brigham
• Dinner with the Bush's and the Bush's neighbours - a salad here and there
but no pics!!

•Father's day lunch with Julian and Chelsea and the beautiful Sophia (jetting in from Montreal).

•Dinner with Leanne & Jacques at their beautiful house
Yes they have a tree in the middle of their house!
(and I hope they don't mind me posting it!! yikes!)
•Lunch with Christine from the Second Cup (I know she is so much more - but that's what she'll always be to me!)

•Lunch with Özlem & Pete (Nortel)
Özlem & Pete's backyard with pool
… but they couldn't drag us in
Look what's in their backyard -
a good old TREE FACE!
... and in order to meet up with Cassia's friends Lesley and Helenka we had to eat  … and then I dragged myself off to  breakfast with Jane (K) and Brenda …  then there was the Italian Festival with the cars …



…  and( lots of) food of course!  (met up with old neighbours as a bonus)! 
(There were salads but there were lots of sweet potato fries as well!)

As one would expect - we've been eating non-stop with our wonderful hosts Ken & Eileen and now Brenda & Brad are hosting us this week so … 
well … it's off to try every restaurant on Preston Street! 
ooops - we ate the pizza!!
We squeezed in a lunch with Freddie and his parents
..there's Freddie and his parents - Karen and Marl

Cottages on lakes
 - the quintessential summer activity in Canada
 - well Eastern Canada
 - well in this part of Eastern Canada anyway!
Cook's Cottage - Crosby Lake, Ontario
 If you don't own a cottage hopefully you are (lucky enough) like us to know somebody who does. 
Not sure those friends are quite as happy as we are - but off we went …

To the Cook's:
We've been going here for 29 years  - some without the Cooks and some with - this time it was without them but with everybody else!
Pip, Eileen, Ken, Paul and me
those orange curtains make everything look orange!!
Happy Birthday Joseph!
 then Chris and Katie joined us … just missing the Cooks :(

To Marie & Frank's
- a chance to catch up with Janet et al … and T&E

There's L-R - Marie, Elizabeth, Frank, Tom, Joseph, Taylor (in front), Riley and her mum Janet

Riley - dressed for the beach!
To Pricilla & Keith's
 - OK - there's isn't really a cottage (it's their year-round home) - and Ok it isn't on a lake - it's on the Ottawa River - but it was LIKE being at a cottage.  These are friend's from Nortel so with Brad, Brenda, Lila and Priscilla it was a chance to reminisce about the "Good old" days and they would be the ones at BNR - that's how far we go back (30 years)
Keith built a topical island on the river!!
Brad Brenda and Lila on the "island"
Making sure I don't go under


See what I mean when I say it's not like a cottage!

There's Brenda, Keith,us, Brad, Priscilla and Lila!!

Spas
 - well somebody had to accompany Eileen to Le Nordik Spa!

- and somebody had to accompany Brenda for her pedi!

Visits
Aunt Zita
It was nice we could attend Joseph's cousin Joan's memorial service at the nursing home   … and … right there in the same home ... was Aunt Zita!
Now you need to know that this is Mrs. Dafoe's younger sister and she is 101. 
(Mrs. Dafoe was almost 101 when she died and their elder sister Gen was 99 and their younger brother was 92 .)

Aunt Zita doesn't look 101 and she doesn't act 101!  She doesn't nap during the day - huh? !!  She goes to bed at 10 p.m. and is up at 6.00 a.m.  I'm too embarrassed to divulge our schedule!  We had to cut short our visit because she was going to her quiz afternoon - "Are You smarter Than a 5th Grader?" - trouble is, she whispered "I forget somethings I learned in 5th grade"!!


Maitland Garden of Hope
Our friends Colleen & Dave "grew" and grew their garden and now open it up for tours (guided and self-guided) and donations go to their daughter's school in Kenya.  

… and colleen makes the statues scattered throughout the garden.


… Jan stopping to smell the …
lilly!

… and they have a zen garden ...
Not only do they grow things - Dave is the most amazing cook and they are both amazing hosts… so off we went for a tour of the garden and … more food …
  Ribs (why did Dave never win his own Rib Cookoff competition??), lamb cooked especially for me (perfect), and chicken that was (apparently) to die for!  

… and ... a breakfast …fit for kings!!
… and Colleen is an artist!!
There's Cyril and Jan, Dave and Colleen … and us!!
You would look this happy if Dave had just fed you!

Canada Day
Canada Day in Ottawa is quite the day!  To celebrate - we went back to our old 'hood for pizza
Happy Canada Day eh?
our (former) corner pub … Pubwells!
then did our old walk into town to "the hill"
 - saw the Snowbirds flying over our heads right over the Peace Tower
There's the Peace Tower  on the hill
(too slow to get a pic of snowbirds)
…and there's Helenka -in the denim shorthand red sweatshirt
(and we didn't know she was there!)
 - heard "Summer of '69" (Bryan wasn't there)
- missed the concert (it has to be a BIG anniversary to be a good concert!)
 - but did see the fireworks from Ashley & Andrews balcony (thank you) …
Not the best fireworks I've seen here
(not the best photo either!!)

Canoe trip
Canoe trips are Joseph's favourite part of Canada
… but  not mine … 
so he took Brad to Algonquin Park and Brenda took me to N.Y.
 … well not New York CITY but N.Y. state
 Rochester upper N.Y. State (brad's brother lives there) and coincidentally there are Outlet stores on the way 
… and there is Dino BBQ (with the beautiful Ashley)
So that's more food!
I was able to stuff in some of the best BBQ pork and coleslaw in the whole world
...and bless (our host) Boyd's heart …
he cooked us ribs and took us to a lovely restaurant for …
yep … more food!
So we are into the home stretch now - back to Toronto to pack the millions of boxes onto half a million pallets … and  there will be … more food!!

… this is one of the larger boxes he is packing!

There's lunch at the AGO in with Les & Gwen (who also fed us dinner in their beautiful garden way back in May!!) and it's also a chance to catch up with more family - the Feeney Family and there will be food … and photos of this one I'm sure  … sorry Kerry! :( 

… a few last-minute visits (more food?) and then good-byes !!  Oh dear - I'm not looking forward to them!  I AM looking forward to see everybody back in Adelaide - but I'm not looking forward to the goodbyes




YumYum Beavertails!
It's 38c outside the mall and these people are sitting around the fire inside!
Something wrong with this
… good old USA!